What does “attractive” really mean? 

A word that impaired a young girl’s perspective of real beauty.  After turning 11, the age when girls start feeling terribly self-conscious of their bodies, I felt defective. Not in the sense where I had lumpy, large zits on my face or thick hairy... Read More | Share it now!

A word that impaired a young girl’s perspective of real beauty.  After turning 11, the age when girls start feeling terribly self-conscious of their bodies, I felt defective. Not in the sense where I had lumpy, large zits on my face or thick hairy... Read More | Share it now!

How I lost my curiosity to learn

(and what I’m doing now to gain it back) As a kid, I used to ask “why” to everything. Why should I eat broccoli? Why should I go to school? Why do I need to save money? My parents probably regretted having me as their kid, but I didn’t care.... Read More | Share it now!

(and what I’m doing now to gain it back) As a kid, I used to ask “why” to everything. Why should I eat broccoli? Why should I go to school? Why do I need to save money? My parents probably regretted having me as their kid, but I didn’t care.... Read More | Share it now!

My dad is dying and I don’t know what I should do.

Should I drop my career, my dreams and future to be with him? Or should I keep hustling at my work so I can finally make enough to support him? My dad gets into serious health problems sometimes. 8 years ago, he had kidney stones. 5 years ago, he... Read More | Share it now!

Should I drop my career, my dreams and future to be with him? Or should I keep hustling at my work so I can finally make enough to support him? My dad gets into serious health problems sometimes. 8 years ago, he had kidney stones. 5 years ago, he... Read More | Share it now!

The one thing you should spend your money on

I’d always saved up every penny I earned. For several reasons: My parents are both hardcore savers who taught me to stash my paychecks for the bigger things in the future. I started building my career 3 years ago and haven’t made much. I live... Read More | Share it now!

I’d always saved up every penny I earned. For several reasons: My parents are both hardcore savers who taught me to stash my paychecks for the bigger things in the future. I started building my career 3 years ago and haven’t made much. I live... Read More | Share it now!

An open letter to all the boys I’ve dated

You probably don’t want to hear what I’m going to say, and that’s fine. I won’t contact you on Facebook, WhatsApp, Wechat, Line, or whatever text messaging we used (unless you want me to). But there’s something I feel awfully guilty of. No.... Read More | Share it now!

You probably don’t want to hear what I’m going to say, and that’s fine. I won’t contact you on Facebook, WhatsApp, Wechat, Line, or whatever text messaging we used (unless you want me to). But there’s something I feel awfully guilty of. No.... Read More | Share it now!