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For someone who has gone on 45+ dates within 3 years and spent a whole college “career” in psychology, let me tell you the smallest but most obvious signs of him falling for you.

  1. When he secretly steals a glance at you when you’re looking elsewhere. He just can’t help but see how adorable you are.
  2. When you ask him for a favor and he just does it. No hesitation, no regrets. You’re worth more than his time playing League of Legends or watching his favorite team on the Superbowl.
  3. When he keeps interrogating you about the guy you’re dating or the guy you like.
  4. When he remembers every special day that’s important to you — your birthday, your mom’s birthday, even the day you first met.
  5. When he ‘accidentally’ touches parts of your body (like your shoulder or back when talking to you).
  6. When he always seems to inch closer to you when you’re talking with your friends or having a great laugh.
  7. When he calls you for no reason. Just hearing the sound of your voice is enough to make his day.
  8. When he comes over to bring you a bowl of warm soup, because he knows you’re sick.
  9. When he takes a few extra seconds staring deep into your eyes but then quickly looks away, because he feels so nervous and shy around you.
  10. When he flirts with you a LOT. You won’t realize it at first, but you’ll see it when he finally falls in love with you.
  11. When he smiles and laughs at every little thing you say.
  12. When he always asks you to go out with him for dinner (and of course, he’ll pay).
  13. When he notices and remembers things about you that most people don’t.
  14. When he teases you all the time just to push your buttons and see your ‘other’ side.
  15. When he texts you everyday.
  16. When he tells you that you’re cute when you do something stupid or when you make fun of yourself.
  17. When he secretly gets jealous when you talk about your crush or other guys (and he won’t admit it if you confront him about that).
  18. When he treats you so much better than before — offering to make you coffee, holding the door for you, or giving you a hand when you’re stuck. If he didn’t have feelings, he wouldn’t treat you like that. But when time goes on and he falls in love with you, you’ll see the difference.
  19. When you hear from your friends or co-buddies about the nice things he has said about you.
  20. When he does anything and everything to make you smile and laugh.
  21. When he’ll say the stupidest things just to keep talking. Because he just doesn’t want to stop talking with you.
  22. When he listens to every single word you say and remembers it. You’re just that important to him!
  23. When he jokes about dating you (this is to first test your reaction before making the next move).
  24. When he can’t say “no” to you. Because he wants to do as many favors for you as possible.
  25. When he trusts you with his feelings. If he suddenly shares his deepest thoughts, fears, and hopes, you got him falling for you.
  26. When he’s curious about your love life and asks questions about what you like in a guy or your future plans.
  27. When he doesn’t get annoyed with you if you tease him when he’s busy.
  28. When he wants to hear all about your day — even if he knows your whole schedule.
  29. When he goes out of his way to see or meet you.
  30. When he makes you happy infront of everything, infront of everyone, every time.

I’m rebuilding my life by discovering who I am, learning what I’m capable of after a 9 year heartbreak that left me stranded in China.